Why do girls love bad boys? Why are good fawning girls being left by their women? Why is taking a vow of obedience, giving her the best wrong? Why are naughty boys being sought?
Does it pay to be decent and nice, or to be brutal and animal with women? Find out how or which is better?
Does it pay to be decent and nice, or to be brutal and animal with women? Find out how or which is better?
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The past couple days we've been talking about 'getting sexual'
[Watch This Video To See How]
And one of the questions I keep getting is: "What if I really like her and want more than just sex…"
So let's address that concern.
My girlfriend would probably describe me a "good" boyfriend… I take good care of her,
treat her well, I'm compromising, I pay attention to her, and I listen to her problems
and try to help her through them…
But here's the thing…
My girlfriend would NEVER have described any of those characteristics about me
when we FIRST MET…
In fact, after we had been dating for a awhile I asked her what her initial opinion
of me was…
She told me I seemed like the type of guy only looking for "fun"…
And she assumed I was probably sleeping with a ton of other girls… AND that I didn't
seem like the boyfriend "type".
Yet, here she is, still with me.
So what's my point? My point is that a mistake you might be making is confusing
"boyfriend qualities" for attraction.
[Watch This Video To See How To Sexually Attract Her]
I know I did before I figured this out..
I used to unconsciously try to show a girl what a "good" boyfriend I would be…
I would make mistakes like:
If you've been dating a girl for a year, it is fine to do all of those things for a girl… and if you
want to keep her, you probably have to…
But…
When you're first meeting a girl the LAST thing you want to do is demonstrate what a great
boyfriend you would be…
Why? Because it DOES NOT create SEXUAL attraction in a woman…
Even if it makes her think "he would make a great boyfriend…"
You still lose… Because once a girl thinks that she begins displaying her "good girlfriend" qualities
that are just as "boring" and "un-sexual" as your boyfriend qualities…
Not only that, but you build up too much comfort with her, and drastically eliminate any urgency for sex…
Plus… you're no longer a challenge.
Game over. Go home.
What should you do instead?
Treat every girl you meet like you're just looking for "fun"…
Don't be afraid that she might think you're only looking for sex…
Here is a cold hard fact… Most girls wind up dating the guy they thought was ONLY looking for sex… Don't be overly agreeable, in fact, don't be afraid to be slightly antagonistic. FLIRT WITH HER…
Tease her in a playful way, mix in some elements of uncertainty so she can't quite figure you out…
and Escalate…
Make sure you watch this video
And remember, even if you think you might really like a girl, even if you're thinking that she is "girlfriend material"
you still need to drop the "good boyfriend" act. "Good" Boyfriends don't get laid…
Watch the video if you don't believe me
Take Care,
Jake
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The past couple days we've been talking about 'getting sexual'
[Watch This Video To See How]
And one of the questions I keep getting is: "What if I really like her and want more than just sex…"
So let's address that concern.
My girlfriend would probably describe me a "good" boyfriend… I take good care of her,
treat her well, I'm compromising, I pay attention to her, and I listen to her problems
and try to help her through them…
But here's the thing…
My girlfriend would NEVER have described any of those characteristics about me
when we FIRST MET…
In fact, after we had been dating for a awhile I asked her what her initial opinion
of me was…
She told me I seemed like the type of guy only looking for "fun"…
And she assumed I was probably sleeping with a ton of other girls… AND that I didn't
seem like the boyfriend "type".
Yet, here she is, still with me.
So what's my point? My point is that a mistake you might be making is confusing
"boyfriend qualities" for attraction.
[Watch This Video To See How To Sexually Attract Her]
I know I did before I figured this out..
I used to unconsciously try to show a girl what a "good" boyfriend I would be…
I would make mistakes like:
- Trying too hard to find commonalities and rapport.
- Focus on showing her that you have a good job, like to travel, and other "boyfriend" traits
- Taking her side when she bad mouthed players, and act like you're totally the opposite of those 'jerks'
- Respecting her too much to make a move…
- Being too generous towards her
- Listening to all her problems and trying to solve them for her…
- Make a lot of compromises so that you get along better
- Paying too much attention to her..
If you've been dating a girl for a year, it is fine to do all of those things for a girl… and if you
want to keep her, you probably have to…
But…
When you're first meeting a girl the LAST thing you want to do is demonstrate what a great
boyfriend you would be…
Why? Because it DOES NOT create SEXUAL attraction in a woman…
Even if it makes her think "he would make a great boyfriend…"
You still lose… Because once a girl thinks that she begins displaying her "good girlfriend" qualities
that are just as "boring" and "un-sexual" as your boyfriend qualities…
Not only that, but you build up too much comfort with her, and drastically eliminate any urgency for sex…
Plus… you're no longer a challenge.
Game over. Go home.
What should you do instead?
Treat every girl you meet like you're just looking for "fun"…
Don't be afraid that she might think you're only looking for sex…
Here is a cold hard fact… Most girls wind up dating the guy they thought was ONLY looking for sex… Don't be overly agreeable, in fact, don't be afraid to be slightly antagonistic. FLIRT WITH HER…
Tease her in a playful way, mix in some elements of uncertainty so she can't quite figure you out…
and Escalate…
Make sure you watch this video
And remember, even if you think you might really like a girl, even if you're thinking that she is "girlfriend material"
you still need to drop the "good boyfriend" act. "Good" Boyfriends don't get laid…
Watch the video if you don't believe me
Take Care,
Jake
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